Gifts for Him - 2020
Gifts for Her - 2020
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Photo from my girls' trip to NYC a few Christmases ago. I loved every second and can't wait to go back! |
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Gift Guide for Kids - 2020
It's that time again!! Haul out the holly, and buckle up, because it's gift guide season! And, to kick it all off, I'm sharing some of my favorite gift ideas for kids. Now, this gift guide has a broad range of gift ideas for children of all ages. Be sure to check out my Gifts for Kids tab on the blog to get even more ideas.

If you're like me, you have children of many ages in your circle that you're buying for. This year, I'm planning on giving gifts to kiddos ranging from age 1 to 21 (ok, so 21 is an adult, but I still view her as my baby cousin). Like I said last year, it can be challenging to find the perfect gift for someone who (1) is in a completely different life stage than you and (2) isn't even your own kid. I still stand by the ideas that gift cards never hurt anyone, toys without batteries get you brownie points with parents, and gifts for infants should actually be gifts for the parents. However, a new tip I've learned in the last year is the Four Gift Rule.
My sister has two children now, and on her first Christmas as a mother she realized just how overwhelming the pressures of giving your kids the "best Christmas ever" each and every year can be. She read about the Four Gift Rule which suggests giving your kids something they want, something they need, something to wear, and something to read, and it's really helped guide her shopping these last few years. Now, as the self proclaimed "cool aunt," I sometimes have to stop myself from buying my nieces and nephews excessive amounts of gifts. So, I try to just pick out one or two items and make sure they fit into one of those Four Gift categories. However, most of my gifts usually fit into the "something they want" category because, again, I'm the cool aunt. 😎
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Cool Aunt Abby doling out gifts |
Matching vest I gave to my niece, Harper, last year! It was found in debris from the tornado this Spring! 👏👏👏 |
Happy shopping!
XOXO,
Abby
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Thanksgiving Outfit Ideas
It it not lost on me that the holidays this year may look different or even be completely non-existent for some. My family is still hoping to have a small get together for Thanksgiving, but of course, that could quickly change in the next few weeks. In years past, I've usually dressed up for Thanksgiving, but honestly, my standards have gotten lower and lower with each month of 2020 that passes. 😂 So there's no telling what I'll show up wearing this year.
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This dress comes in a ton of colors and would be a great holiday option! |
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Easy Halloween Costumes
I've always enjoyed dressing up in fun Halloween costumes. When I was a kid, I would plan my costumes months in advance. Some of my most memorable Halloween costumes were Disney's Esmerelda (I think I was 5, and I was OBSESSED), an 80's Valley Girl (I was in high school and my girlfriends and I nailed the looks), and when my sister and I dressed up as Sonny and Cher (guess who was Sonny #bowlcut).
Not sure what your Halloween plans entail this year, but who says you can't dress up even if you're just partying at home. I've rounded up some simple costumes that are easy to throw together and won't cost you a lot of time or money. In fact, you may even have some of these pieces in your closet already!
Keep scrolling to check them out and maybe even see some spooky photos from Halloweens past! 😂
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Rocked the Flapper Girl costume last year for a Murder Mystery party |
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"My Pleasure" 2018 |
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Stranger Things Season 2 Joyce & Hopper - 2017 |
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Zack & Kelly - 2016 |
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Hipster-ween 2015 |
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Valley Girls 2008! |
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Esmerelda and Friends. Love this photo. 💗 1997?? |
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Baby Nurse circa 1994 |
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Galentine's Day with Pink Lily
And even more so than Valentine's Day, I love GALENTINE'S DAY!
Today, I'm partnering with The Pink Lily Boutique to share two cute and casual looks that would be perfect for a Galentine's Day date. And I'll also give you some fun ideas on ways to spend G-Day with your BFFs!
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Tee / Similar Cardigan / Similar Jeans / Similar Booties |
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Sweater / Similar Jeans / Similar Hat / Similar Booties |
10. Get tickets to a concert
11. Visit a winery
12. Catch the latest chick flick at the movies (and share a vat of popcorn)
fun galentine gift ideas
What to Wear to a NYE Party!
more great ideas
Gifts for Nurses
Last Minute Gift Ideas
Casual Holiday Looks with Maurices
And don't forget to check out the Holiday Fashion tab on my blog that I'm consistently updating with more great holiday styles.
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Black Friday - Sales I'm Shopping
I'm going to be honest...I shop so much year round, that I've never really understood the hype around Black Friday/Cyber Monday sales. Sure, I love a good deal and plan on shopping some sales, but you will never catch me waiting outside a store at 4 am for something. (I guess I should never say never, but I really just can't see that ever happening.)
I was majorly stressing over how I was going to share every. single. sale with you all.
And with a full time job inconveniently in the way, it made it almost impossible for me to prepare a blog post days in advance like I wished I could.
Then I realized, that if you're anything like me, you're only going to be shopping at a few of your fave places anyway. You don't need a laundry list of every retailer that might be offering the slightest discount.
So, here's a roundup of the sales I'll be shopping today. They include some of my favorite retailers and deals that I really think are worth your while. Keep an eye out on my Instagram stories for more great deals that I come across throughout the weekend.
Happy Shopping!
Got my Yule Fuel, and I'm ready to shop!! |
Sales I'm Shopping
American Eagle / Aerie - Select styles 40% off + free shipping
Express - 50% off everything + free shipping
H&M - 30% off everything + free shipping
J. Crew Factory - 60% off everything
Maurices - $40 off every $100 you spend / $15 off $50
Old Navy - 50% off everything
Target - Doorbusters & Deals on sweaters/shoes/home goods/electrnonics
Ulta - lots of doorbosters!
Spanx Faux Leather Leggings - 20% off at certain retailers
Abbylish Discount Codes
Rocksbox - 1st Month free with abbylishxoxo
Luxe Boutique - abby15 for 15% off
MB Decals - abby10 for 10% off
The Sis Kiss - abby15 for 15% off
Mpix - abbylish2519 for 25% off (valid through 11/30)
Best of Luck in all of your Black Friday shopping endeavors!
May the deals be ever in your favor!!
XOXO,
Abby